When it comes to the matter of sexual intimacy there are a lot of misconceptions among Muslims. One of them being “Is the woman on top position forbidden in Islam?” And in this article, you will know what’s wrong and right.
There are certain norms which Islam insists on every Muslims with regards the intimate relationship. The first and foremost thing you should satisfy in order to engage in any sexual acts is, “You need to be married.” Any intimate activities outside of marriage are ruled as forbidden or Haram in Islam.
Hence, In this article, you will know the information on what is permissible for a Muslim couple while engaging in sexual intimacy. And not intended for any of those who are dating outside marriage.
Woman On Top Position Forbidden In Islam Or Not?
As for our knowledge, any intimate act which pleases the husband and wife, except the anal sex, is permissible in Islam. Many scholars also have the opinion for not engage in acts which are nasty. However, there is no clear evidence that they are forbidden, as long both the parties are pleased to do so.
There are three most natural posture, the standing, sitting or squatting, and the laying position. With regard to these postures for intimacy, Islam allows all of them. But unnatural actions such as anal sex is forbidden. Take a note that, from a medical point of view, the standing sex is undesirable.
When it comes to the woman on top position forbidden in Islam, There are some suggestive indications in the Quran and the Hadith.
For example: In one of the verses of the Quran Allah Almighty says: “It is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate, that he might dwell in security with her. And when he covers her, she carries a light burden and continues therein”. (The Quran, 7:189).
The above verses of Quran suggest that, men are the one who should provide security to women, and ensure that she carries a light burden. Letting the women lay down for you is suggested, rather than the woman on top position. However, women on top position are allowed in Islam, as long both are comfortable doing so.
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Any Position Is Permissible, Except Anal Entry
Any other posture or position which is pleasing to spouses is also quite acceptable.
Once Hazrat Umar (r.a) had sexual intercourse with his wife, being behind (but not through the anal passage). Subsequently, the idea took over him that he had done something undesirable.
He immediately rushed to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) exclaiming, “I killed, I killed … “
He was asked, what was the matter.
In response, he spoke about his fear that he had done something undesirable.
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) did not say anything, not answering.
Sometime later, the verses of the Quran were revealed: “Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation. However, you wish and put forth [righteousness] for yourselves”. (The Quran, 2:223)
Then the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) explained the meaning of this verse:
Intimacy permitted from any position, front or rear if this is not anal sex, which is prohibited.
The example given in the Qur’an is cultivable land, which can be approached from any side, if the seeds are sown in a plowed field, and not in another place!
Well, what we could conclude about the woman on top position forbidden in Islam?
It is permissible. This only non-permissible sexual act in Islam is “Anal Sex.”